Misconceptions About Suicide
The following are common misconceptions about suicide:
- "People who talk about suicide won't really do it."
Almost everyone who commits or attempts suicide has given some clue or warning.
Do not ignore suicide threats. No matter how casually or jokingly said,
statements like "you'll be sorry when I'm dead" or "I can't see
any way out" may indicate serious suicidal feelings.
- "Anyone who tries to kill him/herself must be crazy."
Most suicidal people are not psychotic or insane. They may be upset,
grief-stricken, depressed, or despairing but extreme distress and emotional
pain are not necessarily signs of mental illness.
- "If a person is determined to kill him/herself, nothing is
going to stop him/her."
Even the most severely depressed person has mixed feelings about death,
wavering until the very last moment between wanting to live and wanting to die.
Most suicidal people do not want death; they want the pain to stop. The impulse
to end it all, however overpowering, does not last forever.
- "People who commit suicide are people who were unwilling
to seek help."
Studies of suicide victims have shown that more then half had sought medical
help within six month before their deaths.
- "Talking about suicide may give someone the idea."
You don't give a suicidal person morbid ideas by talking about suicide. The
opposite is true—bringing up the subject of suicide and discussing it openly is
one of the most helpful things you can do.
Information provided by:
American Association of Suicidologyhttp://www.suicidology.org/
Suicide Awareness Voices of Educationhttp://www.save.org/
Bipolar Support Alliancehttp://www.dbsalliance.org/